Harbison: Memorial Day is not for Phony Veterans

Jim Harbison

As we approach another Memorial Day honoring those military service members who made the ultimate sacrifice while serving their Country we are unfortunately also reminded of those who try to capitalize on the honorable and faithful service of others. Far too often we read in the paper or hear on the news of an individual falsely claiming to be a veteran, a former member of the Navy SEALs, Special Forces or some other elite military force to gain some favor or honor. America has an outrageous number of phony heroes who would steal the respect and dignity of our true military heroes and their families. These despicable individuals come from all walks of life; laborers, civic leaders, college students, Congressmen, veteran organization members, lawyers, business executives and even US military General Officers. Each has worn military decorations they did not earn and were not entitled. Among other things they are guilty of the crime of “stolen valor”. This is now epidemic and unfortunately the raid on Osama Bin Laden has brought out a fresh crop of these phony heroes that want public recognition for the bravery of others.

Navy Seals

The common thread with all of these insecure under achievers is that they lack the character, courage, fortitude, and integrity necessary to serve in these very special units. These elite units require hard work, dedication, commitment and an unswerving loyalty and fidelity to each other. They unselfishly sacrifice their lives to protect their team mates and comrades in arms. Never thinking about themselves they exhibited the unique courage and character that defines our military heritage.

Richard Blumenthal

Laws have been passed than make “stolen valor” a punishable offense. Unfortunately, our liberal judicial establishment consistently disregards the will of the people and the laws and either fails to prosecute these offenses or makes a plea bargain that results in nothing more than minimal community service. I consider this to be an offense against the character of all the men and women who honorably served in our military service.

Today’s military is an all volunteer force but military service used to be a burden shared by all men ages 18 to 26 via the draft. One’s former station in life became unimportant and once they put on the uniform they developed a common bond with each other. Dutifully, each one performed his or her service and most returned to civilian life.

Military service is a life changing experience and most servicemen are aware of the potential consequences of combat tours. Many combat veterans experience traumatic events that change their lives forever. Not everyone views their service the same but it does have a profound and lasting effect as evidenced by a Marine belief that “Once a Marine, always a Marine.” Many successful individuals received their initial career training in the military or got the motivation to do something else when their term of service expired. Many have made significant contributions to the success of this nation and have remained proud of their military service. Monday will be Memorial Day and I encourage everyone to remember those who died in the service to this Nation.

There are plenty of people in society who did not serve but want to associate with those who did and falsely share in their respect. I would encourage you to be vigilant around those who want to exchange “war stories” that extol their courage or build up their character. Memorial Day is not about boasting about your deeds but about reverently honoring those who gave their lives for this Nation. Honor their commitment, service and sacrifice and remember them on Memorial Day.

Harbison: Memorial Day is not for Phony Veterans